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I'm the worst person to have a podcast.
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I do fairly what's up, everybody.
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Welcome back to the Hook and Bridge Podcast.
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I am your host, Harley, joined by my co-host and little sister, Taylor.
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Uh-huh.
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What's up, buddy?
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Nothing much.
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We haven't done this in a long time.
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Long time.
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We've been busy.
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I know.
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It's just us.
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How exciting.
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So I'm going to reveal some stuff to you.
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Okay.
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So on Friday.
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Um I did half an hour giving you a farewell because you were leaving the show.
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Yeah.
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Me and Chris did half an hour just talking about you and saying all that.
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Hopefully all nice things.
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It was.
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It was all nice things.
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And telling, you know, telling the audience how sad we were to see you go and understanding the situation.
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And that's crazy because they were really big shoes for Chris to fill.
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And now I'm here.
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They're actually they're they're very small shoes.
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Don't look at my dogs.
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Don't look at those.
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Um but like it was a it was a complete shock to Chris because I was like, Yeah, you know, it's just she wants to, but the schedule's not working out, blah blah blah.
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So he he didn't know until we were on the air.
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I told him on the air.
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So his crazy was genuine.
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And then a couple hours later, you texted me, I'm gonna try and make it work.
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So, okay, so here's the thing, guys.
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Here's the thing.
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I my work schedule, Harley and I were talking about this, and I know I work eight-hour days, okay, and I get that, and I get that's a normal working time.
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However, I have to do opening.
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So like I work 4 30 until like 1, 1 30.
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So, you know, anywho, with that being said, I am usually in bed and asleep by this time.
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Like, I have been trying to like because like last night I didn't sleep very well, and it's been a whole thing.
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So I've been trying to like get to bed at a certain time, and then Saturdays is my one actual day off, like my guaranteed day off.
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And that's also Dylan's guaranteed day off.
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So, like, normally Friday night is when we go out to do something because neither of us have to get up early to go to work.
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So, like, we've been spending a lot of time with his family and going and doing things on Friday with his family, and anywho, yeah.
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So I am going to make an effort to set time aside for uh either uh we do this earlier in the evening or like him and I are done by like seven and we do it.
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I'm gonna attempt my best.
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But the past couple weeks, honestly, the past couple weeks we have had actual like family dinners that we've had to attend to.
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Like it just wasn't gonna work out.
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Um yeah, no, so that's that.
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I'm gonna try.
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We're gonna try, we're gonna see what happens.
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Uh, Starbees is wrecking me.
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They are working me like a dog.
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I got sent home early today.
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That's a thing.
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Oh yeah, not in a bad way.
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Oh yeah, yeah, no.
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I got there and there was nothing for me to do.
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And I was like, okay, that's funny because they were so slow today.
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And they put me on support, so like I'm supposed to go like restock and get ice, do all of these things, but all of that was done.
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And I said, Okay, so then what do I do?
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She was like, honestly, I don't know.
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We're all trying to just kind of trying to find things to do because athletes you can't just hang out.
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Like, if you hang out, you get in trouble.
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Sure.
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Which is like, I get it, but also there's genuinely nothing for us to do.
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You know what I mean?
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Like, just let it anywho, not the point.
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So I got there, there was nothing for me to do.
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Honestly, they could have sent me, I got sent home at like 2 30.
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I was supposed to work until four.
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They could have sent me home at 12.
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I had nothing to do.
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So then I I made a joke because the one shift lead, we switched shift leads because with me working eight hours, I go through three different shift leads.
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So the last shift lead, uh, he said something.
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I was like, oh, do you want me to go like deep clean the bathroom?
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He goes, I already did.
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Okay.
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He had sent me on, I got two 10-minute breaks today.
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Dang.
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That never happens because we're always so busy.
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I'm supposed to have two 10-minute breaks.
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So I'm supposed to have two 10-minute breaks and a 30-minute lunch break.
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But like, I'm always guaranteed one 10-minute break.
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And then if I get another one, cool.
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If not, it's fine.
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Uh yeah.
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So I went on a 10 and then I did a whole trash run situation.
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And then he was like, I mean, I guess there's really nothing for you to do.
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Like, do you want to go home?
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And I said, Are you serious?
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And he says, Yeah, like I don't, like, we can handle it.
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Like, there's there's three of us here, and he was like, It'll be all right.
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I said, See you later, Don.
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Now you know you don't get paid for those last two hours that you went home.
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Oh, okay.
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Okay, well, yeah, I clocked out.
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But I I worked nine and a half hours the other day, so like theoretically, it's gonna kind of equal out.
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Right.
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Uh so the other thing too that'll make things easier is with me moving.
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Um, I'll be I'll be home earlier.
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You know what I mean?
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So I'll be which will be nice.
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Yeah, yeah.
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I'll be able to, if we need to, do the show a little earlier.
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Um that that'll help out.
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And I think that would help Chris too, doing it a little earlier.
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I agree, yeah.
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Yeah, yeah, ideally.
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I am yeah, I am I don't know if I can put that on here, but did you were you able to reach my lips?
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Yeah, I think you said that you were looking to uh bomb Starbucks.
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Yeah, close enough.
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Um, I uh everybody I'm getting.
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That's not what you're saying.
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It's a joke, it's a joke, it's not what I said.
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If you want to know what I said, you better watch this on YouTube.
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Anywho, so I'm currently doing that, so I'm hoping that will help the situation, and I'm you know I don't know.
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I'm either I'm also like I'm willing to work part-time.
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Like I'm not willing to take a pay cut, like it would have to match my pay.
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Sure, sure, sure.
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I'm willing to do part-time because I've I've put a hefty amount of money on my credit card so far.
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I got it down to about five grand.
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Down?
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You got it down to yo.
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I'm in a lot of debt, but like each all of my paychecks have been like a thousand plus dollars, not by much.
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It's been like eleven hundred, twelve hundred.
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So I'm just putting like nine hundred to a thousand dollars each time on my card.
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So hopefully that'll get paid off soon.
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But uh, so some updates.
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Umdates.
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So we did that, we did that on Friday, me and Chris, and uh it was a half an hour show uh that I think I may release as like the ending to this show just for funsies.
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That's super fun.
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Um, but Lindsay was having a heck of a time with the baby, so she busted in in the middle of the show and just dropped Adam off on me and then was like, I gotta go clean some stuff up.
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And then he was screaming, and there was a whole thing, and then she came in and she took him back, and then she slammed the door, and I looked at Chris and I was like, I think I have to leave.
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And he was like, You better.
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And I was like, Yeah, that's crazy.
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What happened?
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What do you do?
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Um, so the the dog uh peed on the floor, and um he was trying to like get into it.
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So McKenna was supposed to join us, uh, but she is unable to.
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She said that we have she hopes that we have a great podcast.
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Oh, yeah, I heard you were rage baiting McKenna, which is crazy because I don't even think you listened to Sabrina Carpenter's new album.
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Because I said that Tears was my favorite song, and I think you just ran with that and you told her that it was the worst song ever, but she called me.
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She called me after the birthday party and said we have to talk because why is he rage baiting me like that?
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What does that mean?
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What's rage baiting mean?
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Um, meaning that you say something to get a rise out of the other person.
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Oh no, no, this was my genuine opinion.
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So I actually I actually did because I actually do enjoy music.
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So I'm staying in the loop on everything, so yeah, I've listened to I've listened to the new uh Sabrina Carpenter record.
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Um, I've listened to the new Rob Thomas record.
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Oh, I didn't know there was a new Robinson record record, the new Lofy record.
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Um, but yes, I did listen to her her whole album in its entirety, and I listened to the last one in its entirety afterwards to because to I wanted to give like a concise true analysis.
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Yeah, and I knew that you wouldn't do that level of research, even though you love so here's the thing is I have recently listened to both albums in their entirety.
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Like I listen, I do that anyways.
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Well, let's let's table that for a little bit later.
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We're gonna there's going to be this Sabrina Carpenter discussion.
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The show may go a little longer than I thought.
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Oh, buddy.
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I don't know if it can.
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I still have to eat dinner.
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Me too.
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Um, so anyways, that was Friday, and then Saturday, my little boy turned one year old.
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He's a big boy now.
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He's one year old, and Hems is so cute.
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He's such a wonderful guy.
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We had a great little party for him.
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Oh, it was so cute.
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It was Hungry Caterpillar themed from the Hungry Caterpillar book from Eric Carl.
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Uh, it was very, very fun, very, very cool themed.
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Um it was a very nice venue, and you know how there's bridezillas?
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Yeah, no one talks about the momzillas, and I think that there should be more um uh words, more light brought to that's not the word that I'm looking for, more awareness.
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That's the word more awareness brought to these momzillas because turns out I married one and I didn't know.
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I could have told you that.
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Yo.
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In the best way, I love her to death, but she takes Adam very seriously.
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It started Friday night, and then it bled into most of the day on Saturday.
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Um, dude, Saturday?
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We got so the party started at 1, right?
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Yeah, we got there at 12:30, right?
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Yeah.
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Now, now I know everyone that knows me personally is gonna be like, it's not that big of a deal, you're a big guy, you know.
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And people that watch the YouTube video are probably gonna be like, eh, it's not a big deal, you're a big guy.
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Uh people listening, just so you know, I'm a big guy.
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But I woke up, I've been trying to cut back on coffee, trying real, real hard to cut back on coffee.
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And I woke up and I didn't drink or eat anything.
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I just immediately started taking care of him so that she could do what she needed to do.
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So then I thought, you know, a couple hours of that and I'll I'll get a break.
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And then a couple more hours went by and I didn't get a break, and then it was 11:30, and I was like, okay, well, I have to get a shower because I have to be a part of this party.
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So I got a shower, and then I got out of the shower, and I continued taking care of him, and I got yelled at all day for random things, but I didn't eat or drink anything until an hour and a half into the party.
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It was like 2 30 before I got anything into my body.
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You and I are two very different people.
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Like I oh, sorry, go ahead.
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So the first thing that I had, so we had it at an ice cream place.
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Shout out Beans Ice Cream in Picosin.
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Fantastic.
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Um, but we had it at this ice cream place, and uh, I went next door, so they have like a party area that is next to the actual ice cream shop, and then they close it up and you're in the party area.
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So I went next door to the ice cream place because I saw a picture on the wall in the party side of somebody holding coffee, and I was like, Do they have coffee?
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So I went next door and I was like, Do you guys have coffee?
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And they're like, Not only do we have coffee, but we make a cold brew shake with any flavor of ice cream that you want.
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Wow.
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So I got a vanilla cold brew shake, and they use stoke coffee to make it.
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So as soon as the girl the girl pulls out the bottle of green stoke out of the freezer, like, is that stoke?
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Is that how you're making this?
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And she was like, Yeah.
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I said, Listen, I'm gonna need you to pour half that bottle into the choose a shake, and I said, and then you can just give me the other half because I'm about to drink it.
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Literally, like, here's$20.
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Take all of them.
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Uh, but that shake was fucking phenomenal, dude.
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That sounds delicious.
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So good.
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I had Lindsay try some, she loved it, so then I went and got her one, and I got me a second one because as you should.
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It was my son's birthday.
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Yeah, got him.
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Drink up.
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But he had he had a blast.
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He had a great time.
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That's good.
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And then he had a great time all day yesterday and today.
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Um was he on a sugar hike?
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Um, he didn't have he didn't have a sugar crash.
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He had a I've been awake because he didn't nap either.
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Dude, he was up for like yeah, he was up for like seven hours straight.
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What a guy.
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Oh, he finally got home and crashed around seven, eight o'clock and was out for the night.
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Yeah.
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Go for him.
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He's been going through it today, though.
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He has been a grouchy little dude.
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Wow, he misses the party fun.
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Oh that's a fun.
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Yeah, he's he's getting he's gonna get better though.
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I think Dylan and I have the same chair, but in different colors.
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You do.
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I said that when you got the chair.
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Ah.
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You really don't listen when I talk.
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Most of the time, no.
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I literally was I literally was like, you and Dylan have the same chair.