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What's up, everybody?
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Welcome back to the show.
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I am your host, Harley, joined by my co-host and little sister Taylor.
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And an extremely special guest, uh, friend of a friend of the show, Laura Nicole, that we had on recently.
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Friends with you.
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Um also your band just fucking rocks, man.
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Local NCE, just a hops, hop, skip, and a jump away.
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Please welcome Adam from the Pseudo Cowboys.
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Adam, thank you for coming on.
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My pleasure, guys.
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Thanks for having me.
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Has anybody ever told you that you sound like uh Rhett from Rhett and Link?
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No, no, do you hear that, Taylor?
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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North Carolina guy or Western one?
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I believe so.
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I believe so.
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Yeah, well, that would make sense.
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I think it's a mix of both.
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Yeah, yeah.
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Yeah.
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There's a particular dialect, especially when you get closer to the foothills.
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And uh, I mean, of course, any region has its own dialect, but um, yeah, we sound we sound like we sound over there, yeah.
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Which is hilarious because my parents sound a lot more southern than I do, which is kind of a surprise.
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Um, I think uh you sound like Link, but look like Rhett.
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Okay, which is a big compliment.
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They're great.
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So so speaking, so Rhett's the handsome one.
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Very, very of your southern draw does not come through in your songs at all.
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You have you have this really cool, like um almost almost 80 hair metal type of sound.
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You have like this squeal to your voice.
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I compared it to the struts, was was my biggest comparison.
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This happens every time.
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Um not intentional, yeah.
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Never is, isn't it so funny?
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It's so funny, but it's so annoying, and I don't know how to make it stop.
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Does it happen the word struts?
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No, no, it tracks my it has this weird like hand movement thing okay where if if I put my hand up, it knows that my hand's up and then it like zooms in on my face for some reason.
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It's real annoying.
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Uh but so I do think you guys, well, you specifically sound so much like the struts mixed with like a Steel Panther, um almost like a Judas Priest, even like you have this very like 80s style squeal to your vocals that I love, and it's unique, and I haven't heard it in so long.
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Um and you you guys kind of put on like an 80s like style when you when you perform, right?
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Yeah, I think the thing is just to be theatrical and fun, and it doesn't have to be specifically glam or anything, but you know, if I can glean pieces of what I like and throw it all together, it's like, yeah, I'm gonna just put it all in the pot and enjoy it.
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So we have moments where we're nodding our 80s, 70s influence, and then some of it is completely different, you know, because there's like a a prince thing that runs heavily through our music.
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Um so and that you know, that requires the squealy falsetto too.
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But um, yeah, it's just something weird that my voice can do, and it's like, yeah, I'm gonna be indulgent and just write a song.
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I guess you might be referring to the hero song.
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Yes, like super, super high singing, yeah.
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Um, so the funny thing about that song is uh Billy Corgan from The Pumpkins posted about uh Rainbow.
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Have you ever heard of Rainbow?
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Dio sang for Rainbow.
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Absolutely, and I'd never heard long uh long live rock and roll, and I just like listened to it.
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And as soon as I heard that, this concept for the hero song came to me, and you know, just to be like talking about dragons and medieval things.
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That's not even mentioned in the hero song, but it's just I don't know, like the thematic everything was about medieval.
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Yeah, and so I just created this song, like running riding down the road, and I started you know singing really high.
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I was like, Oh, this is great.
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Recorded on the phone, got home, wrote it.
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They they it's always like Dio and Iron Maiden.
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Every song is about them having a crazy dream, like there's always a crazy dream involved.
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Yeah, so it was more that branch of metal, like you were saying, it was Iron Maiden and and that, but you know, it sounds a little more like I'm trying to do the darkness, which I love the band The Darkness.
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That uh Justin's actually a friend of mine, and um, so the the closest I could get to making that sound was sort of imitate Justin.
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I did like 50 takes to do that, by the way.
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That's funny.
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I'm not always on like on the recording, like it's it's very high.
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But um, I went back like a couple days in a row and like resang that thing, just like I gotta get it like Justin would.
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That's it's so funny that you bring up the darkness.
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When I showed uh your band to my wife, she said it's like Nirvana meets the darkness.
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Dude, that's a great description.
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Tell us, yeah, right.
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You know what?
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We try to like make a uh palatable, you know, one-liner to tell people what do you sound like?
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And um, a lot of us just kind of agreed on we sound like the love child of Led Zeppelin and Prince.
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But I think Nirvana in the darkness is better for people that know what the dark who the darkness is.
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So that's really interesting, right?
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No, as soon as she said it, I was like, Oh, you nailed it because I kept saying the struts.
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I was like, Yeah, you you gotta check them out.
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They sound like the struts.
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And she was like, No, it's not the struts.
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And then she was she was listening to it.
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Actually, she was listening to um uh baby it's baby it's a covenant.
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Um oh and and she was yeah, and she was listening to it and she was like, No, it's it's something else.
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Um, and then she was listening to it a couple times.
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She was like, Nope, it's the darkness.
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She was like, He sounds like the lead singer of the darkness.
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That's so interesting.
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Yeah, so and then once she said it, there is like a through line in your vocals there.
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Um, so it's cool that you have that influence and that connection with him as well.
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That's amazing.
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She picked that up.
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Um, yeah, I I communicate with him pretty regularly and um actually showed him that song.
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I was like, Is this too close to Growing on Me and Dinner Lady Arms?
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And he's like, Nah.
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But I was trying to do on the song Baby It's Covenant, like a word play, like he would do, also.
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So it's um, you know, musically it's kind of in that space, but also just having fun with words and writing a silly love song, covenant and loving it, like yeah, yeah.
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That's another thing we gotta talk about is your incredible lyricism, um, especially the punny side.
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You you really know how to like take uh uh uh play on words and push it to the extreme.
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Yeah, well, I'm glad you find that fun because I feel like most of the time it's not well received or not received at all, but that's being an entertainer sometimes.
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You just you're doing what you love, and who cat catches it catches it.
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So, yeah, you're you're definitely like your band seems like fun, you know what I mean?
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It's it's not like could well so you have some deeper songs on there for sure.
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Um, but like most of your guys' tracks are this like high energy going out to a bar, fun kind of band, you know, and we don't see that much these days.
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Yeah.
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Well, I also have to point to the darkness for that because a lot of the earlier material was very serious.
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Um, because you know, we've been around a long time and different eras of music have come and gone.
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So when we really got started, I mean there were a lot heavier bands like in the mainstream culture, and so we were kind of doing more of that kind of music, but I that's what I like too, anyway.
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You know, um there's some really good, really good acts from the early 2000s, and uh so we were writing stuff that was in that vein.
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Um, when it came to like trying to get attention on the internet, I found that being humorous was a little bit better, and you know, if you're gonna capture somebody, like seriousness doesn't always translate, especially on social media.
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So the things that we invest our time in with music videos and content, it's like being humorous, and that's how we are anyway, because we're a bunch of nerds that goof off, and and it's like we want people to kind of relate to that and also enjoy the deeper stuff, but I think overall I just want people to be playful when they hear our music and come out and cut up and um you know, be be nerds with us.
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Yeah.
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So what would you say is like your most nerdy uh hobby or thing that you enjoy?
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Martial arts.
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Martial arts, what are we talking like uh karate jiu-jitsu taekwondo?
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Oh, yeah, like you know, the mixture of uh 90s version of karate that you could take in a rural t town that I grew up in, you know, like the things that they make fun of in you know, fist and footway.
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And I follow this amazing uh Instagram account where these guys basically troll and they they do like these board breaking circuits where they run around like some dressing like like Ken from Street Fighter, and it's and it's hilarious to see the comments like people are like enraged, like that's not real martial arts.
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They're they're they're having fun and they're messing with you, and like yeah, like say that again.
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Can I see your best kick?
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Yeah, but the problem is I have sweatpants on right now.
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So maybe maybe watch the hero song video where I do those roundhouse kicks.
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Got it, got it.
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I'll throw some pretty high kicks in there.
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Okay.
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Um but uh yeah, martial arts people are are nerds, there's like a particular type of nerd, and I and I love that crowd, and um, so you know well almost like uh like a fitness nerd.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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I mean, you get the people together, I don't know, they just they have this deep passion where they can't see the humor and how fill funny they look sometimes.
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So yeah, yeah.
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I mean, growing up who did not want to wear a ghee, like if yeah, and especially in the 90s, like the Power Rangers, like come on, man.
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And all his action movies, and that that's a lot of the inspiration for the hero song, is just my love for that era of action movie where the hero, like I was trying to outline like the really shallow qualities according to those movies that make a hero, you know, he's unconscionably handsome.
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And you know, he solves all things with karate, like in the lyrics there.
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So yeah, yeah.
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So wait, so does that mean you were like a big Jason Segal guy too?
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I was more Van Dam, okay, Bruce Lee.
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Um, but you know, I watched them all, you know, Steven Segal and um you know the Chuck Norris movies and Arnold and Chuck Norris Stallone.
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Uh Chuck Norris was like in an icon.
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What was that show that he was in?
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Um Walker.
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Walker, Texas Ranger, yeah.
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It's so good.
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Doesn't he also wear a gi in that?
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He wears like the like a top gi and and like blue jeans, right?
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Um I think he just has like a western attire on, like, Texas Ranger would.
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Uh that that that's just something that's stuck in my head, I guess.
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See, Chuck Norris is so powerful, you just see the gi and you see the black belt, even though he doesn't have to wear it.
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What happened to the Chuck Norris jokes?
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I miss that.
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I miss that so much.
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Well, there's an Instagram account um called Chuck Jokes, I think.
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I'm promoting like other people's accounts right now.
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Um but yeah, I get those Chuck Chuck jokes jokes.
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Um tell me about Tell me about weekly existential crisis.
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Yeah, yeah.
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Well that's my favorite song on this EP.
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Oh, cool, yeah.
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I mean, I think that everybody can relate to looking at your phone and comparing yourself to others in this day and age because we have to interface through social media, and it's sort of like you know, at that time when I wrote it, um, there were horrible shootings and things going on.
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I mean, it was just what last year or the year before.
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And I I feel like, you know, if I'm just a normal, sort of kind of well-balanced person, as much as an artist can be, and I feel horrible comparing myself to others, like what does an unstable person feel like?
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So I was trying to tow this line of being like both characters, like a a common person can relate to feeling like this just I'm valueless and I can't keep up, and then also be that person that's a little bit psychopathic, and uh, you know, what kind of acts are they gonna commit?
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So it's a very dark song, but it uh I love the sound of that song.
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Yeah, yeah.
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It's the the guitar is killer on that song.
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I absolutely love the guitar in that song, but the the message, man, yeah, that I I really like gravitated towards that one on this one.
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Like there was just something about the exactly like you were saying, the the way that you're kind of talking about social media and just how people view themselves comparing yourself to other people, and and especially right now, I feel like that message is so much stronger now, probably than when you wrote it.
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And and it truly, like I I think that one's one that I think everyone, if you have a chance, should pull that track and listen to, because I think that has a such such a beautiful message in it, too, towards the end.
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Yeah, I mean, I worry about people.
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That's uh like I said, if you know a normal person feels these dark things, uh, you know, people that are being influenced by it that aren't so stable and don't have a good foundation.
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Whoo, yeah, right.
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And you still were able to pull out like such a dark topic in a playful manner, like that's crazy to me.
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Yeah, yeah.
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So I I I don't know how else to say this other than Marcy Playground.
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Yeah.
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How how how did that come about?
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Yeah.
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Um, well, they are managed by actually a Raleigh entertainment company, and uh we connected through them.
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And in the in the past, uh they used to do these things that the radio station would sponsor that we would do a cruise in a or Bahamas retreat, and I was lucky enough to be asked to go down there and be a part of it and perform by the radio station and this entertainment company, um Deep South Entertainment.
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And so they pulled Marcy in for that and uh and also sponge.
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And uh I went down to the Bahamas a couple times, played with these different groups, and um John was super nice.
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At one point, we played a show together in Raleigh at Deep South and made a little appearance on a promo video for me and just saying some nice things.
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So awesome, talented dudes, love those guys, and they're still out there really kicking it right now, too.
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If you ever get a chance to see Marcy live, they're they're really good.
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As such a music fan, when that happened, were you like this is a dream come true situation?
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Like, especially like Marcy and Sponge.
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I didn't even realize it was Sponge, also.
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That's crazy, man.
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Yeah, yeah.
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I mean, I eventually learned how to act around successful people, but it took a bit.
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I'm still actually saw um I played in downtown Raleigh not too long ago um for a summer fest and they had um spin doctors playing, and I met Chris Baron back when we had a Bud Light downtown live concert series in the early 2000s, and he happened to walk into a bar that I was going to too, and I just like asked him really stupid questions, kind of was his little shadow following him around.
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And so all these years later, I guess it's almost it was like 15 years later, I was like, hey, he was about to get on stage and I just played, and I was like, Hey man, can I stop you for a second?
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I just want to thank you for being so poised and gracious when I was a young man, just like asking dumb questions.
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He's like, What'd you ask?
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And I was like, Oh, it was something stupid, don't worry about it.
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But I just I I remember that example of him, you know, being patient and interacting with somebody where he probably just wanted to get to where he was going.
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And I thought that's how you treat people like when you're successful.
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So it it really served me well.
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Not that I've been successful, but I think you know, when you play a lot, you interact with a lot of people that want to get your attention.
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If they want to express something to you, you should, you know, really give them the time of day.
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And it's not always easy to do.
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And I I thought he did a really nice job of that.
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So shout out to Chris Barron from Spin Doctors, another incredible group I've had the chance to share a bill with.
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I I can I can only imagine you being like at the bar and you just walk up to me and you're like, hey, hey, two princes, right?
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What about it?
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And you're like, Yeah, man, great stuff.
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Um, yeah, I appreciate your modesty, and uh to me, I would venture to say that you have reached success.
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Um yeah, yeah.
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Especially to Taylor and I.
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Uh we're big fans, but as as you say that, how do you define success?
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What what what defines success for you and in where you are as an artist today?
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Yeah, uh, I think just a real reciprocal relationship with a real audience, like the days of you know, having that superstar level of success is not really within reach for a lot of people, and you know, as you get older, you don't really want that either.
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But what what I want is like knowing the people that are interested in my songs and the band's work, and um, I really like having you know enough of a reciprocal personal relationship with people to be able to sustain off of.
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So like we have a Patreon, and those people that are in that community that subscribe to us, like they are the best fans because they they kick in and allow us to make music by subscribing, even if they're you know in the free tier or whatever, they're interacting and they're interested in the things that we're showing the behind the scenes and just silly stuff that didn't get used in a music video.
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And it's like everybody's just kind of interested in it and keeping up with us, and like, God, that feels good as an artist, just to be able to share and it be received.
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Like on social media, a lot of the times, you know, you put something out there and it just evaporates, and you could have like really executed it well, and you know, for no reason at all, something else works, and you didn't put that much effort into it.
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But like, you know, when we have that super fan club on Patreon, and you know, they're commenting and asking us like questions, and we do live streams and interact, like that, that is the thing right there.
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Um, I would love to grow it, um, but uh I at the same time it feels like super fortunate for the people that are there, like that is that is success.
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So hell yeah, man.
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Uh speaking of your Patreon, those fans also are aware of you being a new father.
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Um let's just I gotta ask.
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I I had Ryan Cabrera on here last year, and I asked him this question because he's also a new dad.
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Um what is a message today that you want your child to find in the archive someday that you want to leave behind?
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What is what is something that today you want to tell your child for the future?
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I want her to feel secure no matter what she does, like that she's just deeply loved, and to not, you know, we were talking about the way people feel judging themselves, rating themselves against what's presented on social media.
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It's all you know, sort of a a uh performative facade.
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Like I don't I don't want her to see that and feel moved at all.
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Like I I want her to understand she's just like at her foundation, okay.
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And uh, you know, a lot of us may have a little bit of a hole in ourselves and we're looking for validation outside of things.
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And I and I hope that you know mine and my wife's love can just override all those influences.
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Um that's uh that's my goal with her, you know.
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So I'm telling this little baby that doesn't even understand me yet, it's just I love you, just like looking at her.
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I don't want her to be like, you know, overindulged, but she needs to know at her core, like she's gonna be good no matter what happens when outside judgment, anything.
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Right.
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It's a beautiful message, man.
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Um let's talk about cosplay rock real quick.
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How how did how did you land on putting that as number one is my first question.
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Um secondly, just tell the story because the it's it's wild.
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Yeah.
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Well, I'll tell you what, when we came out of the pandemic, um, we started doing shows again, and we were trying to, you know, get on bills that have bands that are like us, and there are a lot of young rock bands out right now, and it and it kind of shocked us like there were people to play with post pandemic for some reason.
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Like I guess kids, you know, shred shedded on the guitar and got to shredding.
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And um when we played like one of our first shows at a local venue called the Poor House Suite, played with some young guys and they all had long hair, and this hasn't existed for a long time, like um you know, we were like Outcasts in the local music scene for like the rock and wearing too much color and you know being theatrical.
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Like that wasn't cool, like the indie rock thing like dominated forever.
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And um, so when this resurgence of rock came out, I was like, this is amazing.
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Um and the spirit was in the air, and I just watching these like young dudes be like I was when I was their age, fully into it.
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I mean, fully embracing like I'm a rock and roller, and and but contextually it's like disconnected from you know the path that came from 60s to 70s to 80s to 90s, and then you know, sort of fell apart.